How To Face The Male Boss'S Invitation To Night

In addition to the business need to interact with the relevant men, professional women often face many problems from their colleagues and superiors.

For example, one day after a class, a colleague or boss will invite you to a party or dinner together. If you refuse, no matter how euphemistic and sincere your attitude is, it will hurt his pride and make him unhappy. If you do not agree with your wishes, you will not be able to speak or hurt your intentions or intentions.

So how do professional women cope with the evening invitation of male colleagues and superiors?

I find an excuse to decline.

Even if you have no real reason, you should find an excuse to refuse him if the family is sick. If he still doesn't give up, then tell him to "change the day" so as not to embarrass him.

Generally, a smart man will not invite you to a date that has nothing to do with a business when he touches a soft wall.

Of course, if you can't find the right excuse, then you'll be welcome.

Make up your face and avoid it.

Since you want to keep an appointment, you must dress up carefully, otherwise your colleagues or superiors will think you do not respect him.

Dress carefully, do not have to deliberately, especially not heavy makeup, so as not to make themselves unfamiliar, and let people mistakenly think you deliberately dressed up to attract him, touches its non part of the mind.

You must not wear clothes that are too revealing.

Clothes that are too exposed or highly pparent are not suitable for men to wear, especially when they have dinner together or go to parties.

Because wearing the body too much for colleagues or bosses is a way of ignoring the sense of authority of the boss. Secondly, it is obviously provocative, which makes people feel very frivolous, and at the same time may provide an opportunity for those who have ulterior motives.

Don't scatter your hair.

To scatter hair in front of a man is mistaken for a flirting signal.

Especially in a warm and soft dinner atmosphere, you scatter the fluffy hair to push the charm of femininity and gentleness to the extreme, so that men are so upset that they can not keep themselves, so that you can make unexpected actions that affect your mood for dinner.

Don't talk so much.

If a man talks to you at a banquet, you must maintain a generous attitude and answer a few sentences in a simple way.

Don't be too busy to report "your life experience" to others, or to inquire about the other person in detail, or you will scare people away or be regarded as a gossip woman.

Don't gossip.

A gossiping woman is certainly not a sociable person who has cultivated manners. If she gossips on social occasions and exposes people's privacy, she will be disgusted and let people "stay away from home".

Do not paint in the eyes of the masses.

It's impolite to put on the powder and smear red in public. If you need to mend the makeup on your face, you must go to the bathroom or the dressing room nearby.

Don't be shy.

In social situations, if you find someone watching you, especially men, you need to act calmly and calmly.

If the other person has been with you before, you can naturally greet him.

If the other person has never met you, you should not be embarrassed or angry at each other. You can leave his line of vision skillfully.

Don't be so wooden.

Facing strangers who are acquainted with each other, they can start by talking a few irrelevant words. If they sit and shut up without speaking, their solemn expression will not fit in with the happy banquet atmosphere.

We must not drink too much.

Drinking is a taboo for women.

If you want to have dinner with people, you must drink some drinks or wine, but you must not drink too much. Especially when you are drinking with your boss, once you drink too much, you will not only respect your boss but also your health. What is worse is drunkenness. It will affect your image and even lead to eternal hatred.

He said goodbye.

If you are public speaking, your boss will usually have a good time. If you are only interested in developing personal feelings or gossiping after public business, if you have no intention of doing so, it is best to put an end to conversation and shake hands when you are ready.

Because under the influence of wine, each other will make a clean breast of their privacy, which may be regretted afterwards.

In short, we should use our wisdom to deal with the invitation at night, and let people admire your talent, wit and upright personality.